Tribute To Love
This week our community lost a friend suddenly and the shock has us all struggling for a place to land.
Ellen was a friend we met through our local knitting group – a group that has remained intact and in touch for over 9 years. The shop where we met moved on, and a new one has opened, with new friends and opportunities for connection.
I live in a small Sierra like town where you see the same people shopping and walking and in this case knitting. Ellen never fancied herself a great knitter but she loved the social contact and she often brought her late dog, Grady, to our around the table discussions. He became a shop favorite as well.
Ellen struggled a long time with a chronic hereditary disease that had many challenges and close calls over the years. But this time, it was sudden and fast.
She had a sunny disposition – never far from a laugh or smile – keen in her interest in others and always carried hugs wherever she went.
When things like this happen – people often ask me what to do – or how to find a little peace. We all live like it’s going on forever – even when we know each day is a gift and each person a special and unique gift in our lives.
For me, it’s about remembering to love – to do so without embarrassment. To speak love and show it – in any way we can. To remember our true nature is love and therefore we are just being what we already are. To tell the people in our lives how much we appreciate them, and to forgive them and ourselves for any slights or mis-steps along the way.
I never heard Ellen complain and I learned from her that we have the power to keep going – even when it’s painful and difficult. She left a husband and a daughter as well as her friends and extended family. We wish them the celebration of her spirit as the weeks go by. I am picturing her cuddling with Grady – free of pain and full of joy!
For those of us who knew her – give love today – and for those who didn’t – give love to the ones you know – often and without reserve.
